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Wednesday, January 11, 2006
in the shoes
Never judge others. Just like you dislike when people judge you. Whatever the consequences is, I repeat, never judge others. This is one of the most important lesson that I am learning as well.
You will never understand how important this lesson is unless you put yourself in others' shoes.
I believe everyone have scolded people or mistreated them one way or the other. Repent now and promise yourself that you will never treat people this way for you, yourself also dislike people when they treat you the same way.
People always complaint how they got treated by others and never really talks about the vice versa. And people also like revenges. (Not all people that I am refering). These are some of the common things that we encounter in our daily lives. This concept, "if you do something bad against me, I will do the same to you in return" will never be solved if everyone thinks this way.
Imagine this, try putting yourselves in other shoes might be one of the way to solve this problem. If everyone thinks this way, he or she might actually feels the actual consequences that the person might be experiencing at that point of his or her life.
I will give an example of what I am experiencing in my life or perhaps yours.
I have often hear or see people saying bad things about others at their back, discriminating the person that the group dislikes and boycotting the person etc etc. All this I believe we have encountered it countless times or in fact WE have even committed it. I admit I am one of them at times. But when we think back, is it fair to the person? What if the person is you? What if you are the one that many people dislikes and talks at your back? What if you found out that you are really the one? Ask yourself these questions. You will never understand unless you humble yourself and put yourself in other shoes. Then you will understand what is the feeling like.
People seldom learn unless they are put in the same situation. Then they will know the 'pain'. If people speaks bad about you, do you like? I believe majority hates it. Only crazy people like it. So when you are about to talk bad about a person, or about to scold a person, or do something bad to a person, Put yourself in their shoes and imagine that you are the one whom everyone is talking bad about. You will then understand the actual feeling that the person is experiencing.
No matter how bad, irritating, bias, and anything bad that you can think of the person, NEVER do anything bad to him or her. Just like you dislike when people does the same to you.
I sincerely hope that this could be one of the lesson that all of you can learn and never repeat what you used to do again. That is why I dislike punishing or scolding people if i have the authority because I hate it when I am being punished or scolded. If the person only learns through punishments, then I will do it if I have the authority. Just like my mother punishes me when she know that I can only learn through punishments. It is the same.
Just remember to put oneself in others' shoes when you are experiencing such situation.
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Singapore Polytechnic, school of BE
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